Quickie post

I could easily live the rest of my life without hearing another person saying, "been there, done that." It's just sooooo condescending the way people say this. It's all in the context of course, but I hate it when somebody's having a bad day or really going through a problem and another person simply says "been there, done that" in a way that completely makes the original person feel about 2 inches tall because she or he actually feels bad about what she or he is going through.

Thank you.